Pouring While Processing
- Teacher Nina B.
- Jun 5
- 3 min read
A Call to Remnant Women Who Keep Showing Up
There's a tension many of us carry in silence: being called to pour while still processing our pain.
I've lived there.
In the faith community, there's often an unspoken expectation that we must be fully healed to be useful, fully restored to be qualified, or completely whole to be trusted with the oil.
That is a lie—and today, we dismantle it with the Word of God.
"He who has begun a good work in you will complete it." (Philippians 1:6, NKJV)
God doesn't start what He doesn't intend to finish.
That means you're not behind—you're being built.
God Calls You While You're Healing
Maturity has taught me that God often calls us to pour mid-process.
Not to exploit our pain—but to refine our obedience.
Not to rush our healing—but to reveal His strength through our surrender.
Your process doesn't disqualify you.
It reveals your humanity.
It confirms your survival.
It validates the oil you carry, because it came at a cost.
“Present your bodies a living sacrifice…” (Romans 12:1, NKJV)
Obedience has always mattered more to God than perfection.
When He places a mandate on your life, pain doesn't void it.
Fatigue doesn't override it.
Grief doesn't revoke it.
He doesn't need your perfection—just your yes.
The Pour Doesn't Pause Because You're Processing
I've tried to put down this year's Healing the Remnant Woman 2025 more than once.
Even as I write this post, the temptation to cancel still lingers.
The grief feels fresh.
The weight is heavy.
The warfare is real.
And if I'm honest? I don't feel qualified to hold space for anyone else. I don't feel ready.
But Holy Spirit continues to arrest me with this truth:
“You’re not pouring from perfection. You’re pouring from permission. I gave it.”
That word wrecked me.
And it refreshed me.
It's the reminder I need to continue yielding to the assignment—even now.
You Are Not Alone
So if you're showing up for others while walking through your own valley, please hear me:
God honors your yes.
Your process doesn't cancel your purpose.
It prepares the soil.
It deepens your dependency.
It sharpens your sensitivity to His voice.
"And He said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness." (2 Corinthians 12:9, NKJV)
In your weakness, His power rests.
That's not a liability—it's a divine advantage.
Yes, care for your soul.
Yes, rest.
Yes, process.
But don't count yourself out because you're still healing.
You are still useful. You are still anointed. You are still called.
Why This Retreat Matters
Healing the Remnant Woman: The Garden Within is not about perfect women gathering for picture-perfect moments.
It's not about flawlessness—it's about faithfulness.
It's not about performance—it's about presence.
It's not for the ones who've mastered the mask.
It's for real women:
Women who've cried, endured, and questioned God.
Women who are still healing—and still showing up.
Women who are ready to reclaim the parts of themselves they thought were lost forever.
It's for the women who've survived betrayal, burnout, abuse, hidden battles, and silent grief—and still carry oil.
"She poured it on His head as He sat at the table…" (Matthew 26:7, NKJV)
The table is ready.
The oil is costly.
And your release is overdue.
What Awaits You in the Garden
Spirit-led healing sessions
Prophetic painting and creative expression
A sacred foot-washing ceremony
Meals, printed materials, and a curated swag bag—completely free
Space to breathe, reflect, and be poured into
"If you extend your soul to the hungry… the Lord will guide you continually, and satisfy your soul in drought." (Isaiah 58:10 - 11, NKJV)
You've been giving. Now it's time to receive.
You've been pouring. Now it's time to be filled.
💬 Let's Talk About It…
This isn't just a blog post—this is a call to action.
Have you ever had to pour while processing your own pain?
Your voice matters. Whether you're in the middle of the mess or on the other side of the miracle, I want to hear your story.
👇 Drop a comment below or share this post with a sister who's been holding it all together in silence.
This is your sign:
"You don’t have to be perfect to be powerful."
I'll see you in the Garden.
In His Love & Boldness,
❤️ Teacher Nina B.
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